Tomorrow is the second Sunday in May. It's called Mothers Day.
Since I was young, my family had a tradition which will celebrate Mothers Day in my Grandma's House. But as all of us had grown up and busy for academics and works, this tradition didn't continue until this year.
My mum is a super optimistic person. But I feel that she is more and more optimistic when she is older now, haha, when she was young back then, she was so strict and would caned me by using the clothes hanger. And I like my dad more when I was small. I admit that I was so lazy or clumsy, that my mum would always cane me, and I would went to my parent's room, staring my parent's wedding photo which hung on the wall and mumbled "Daddy, mummy caned me." with tears. Haha, kinda silly right.
My mum said, "Nothing gonna jail you up unless you did something immoral." So whenever I was dilemma what to do or afraid of making some choice, she would say:"You will not go into the jail, don't worry. Just choose."
I got only 4A's out of 10 subjects in my SPM trail result, my mum said, 4A's also counted good already. (I was like, hey, others parents might scold them for this kind of shit result, but my mum... ) She said:"You are better than me a lot. I just studied until form 3."
Soon when I got my real SPM result, I was so excited and called my mum to inform her the good news. Owing to the worse line connection, my mum misheard my result as 5A's. "5A also good lah, better than your trial result. 5A jiu 5A luh, no need sad, got road for you to walk one, don't worry." I was like, MUMMY I GOT 10A's NOT 5!!! haha
I would rather said that my mum is looking good at her late 40, wearing pastel colours skinny jeans, wearing super hot and short pants which I couldn't ever wear it, wearing the cute girl earring and she really look more 'in' than me. And she is slim, very very slim, with not over 50kg's weight and she is super hot in any clothes.The saddest thing is that I didn't inherit the good gene from her. TT
When I turn into adolescence, the way that my mum treated me had changed. She was so hot-tempered and fierce back then when I was small. But now, she really like my friend, somehow a little bit like my "pig dog friend" who will critic or complain the same thing together. She often said: "You shall not find a boyfriend like your dad." I wonder my dad is a good man indeed, so is it means that I should find a bad guy? ps: mum, your daughter actually falls into a bad guy haha.
My mum got a lot of awesome quotes, one of them recently is 宁缺勿滥, which means rather to be single instead of finding someone useless. Mum, your daughter me already 19, I know what is good and what is bad kay. I often nag that I'm turning 20 soon and haven't meet the right man and I say: All good man already have girlfriend lah" But my mum said: "Being single isn't that scary, it is better than you married a wrong guy." I wonder few years ago she was worried when both me and my bro said we feel that being single forever feels good too. She said: How about my grandchildren? haha
Sometimes my mum talk harsh but trust me, she is kinda naive(I can't find other adjectives better). Sometimes she is so kind until she is willing to been cheat. Once when she was cheated by a bad heart vendor, she said:"Look upon as you are helping them." And when I said a lot of things like my friend been cheated this way that way, she was like"really ah? like this also can ah?" Somehow I feel like I did inherit her personality in this aspect. I wonder is it good or bad.
The thing that I jealous the most is, she wouldn't get fat no matter how much she eat. She doesn't eat lot in fact, but she eats supper and sometimes she will ask me want to accompany her to eat curry mee or not in late 11pm. Sometimes I do accompany her and sit there eat nothing. Pity me.
Most old folks tent to feel embarrassing to take money from children. I wonder why, giving parents money should be children's obligation right?
But the thing is my mum wouldn't shy to get money from me, and me too of course. We are like,"Hey, this month money not enough to pay my bills, lend me some." or "I want to buy facial stuff.""Nah, take it." or "You just got your salary right? I want to claim my petrol fee."
Haha. The first time when I got my salary I gave 2/5 to my mum. I originally want to give 1/5 to my mum 1/5 to my dad but my dad is that typical parents who shy to take their child's money. So the money end up to be in my mum's pocket.
She said:"No matter how much you earn in future, remember to give me some. I raise you up leh"
Of course, I knew she didn't mean anything negative. And I will do so even she didn't mention it.
For me, my mum is a super good inspirer. She always look to the good side and say something good. And she had taught me that, human don't live eternity, everyone is leaving someday. And when he/she leave, he/she is going to reincarnate to be a better person to have a better live. We don't avoid to discuss the death, cause she taught me how to handle it. She said:"If someday I leave, I will reincarnate to become a handsome boy to live as a guy. But before that, I want to travel the world first in my soul form." She is way too cute. Because of her theory, I was somehow effected too. So whenever my dad say:"Riding a motorbike is dangerous, it might takes your life." and I would reply:"When your time is up, no matter you are with your car, your motorbike, your bike, or even you are in plane, in ship, in ferry or in house, you'll die."
People die because God had written the date you need to go back. And my mum laughed at me .
Conclusion is, I LOVE MY MUM SHE IS SUPER CUTE AND ADORABLE!
But saying I Love You this three words really need my life. Haha.
But still, Mummy, I love you as much as you love me.
And don't worry, your daughter is big now, she promised won't find someone like Daddy.
By the way, I don't think you will read this haha. Mummy I love you.
Eugene
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